You are confronted with the need to make decisions each day
of your life.
You can safely divide them into two categories:-
Type 1 decisions which only are matter of personal
preference and will not impact your life in any significant way—matters such as
“What clothes will I wear today?” or “What will I eat for lunch?” or “Which
movie would be appropriate to watch?”
Type 2, however, are those decisions that will have
long-term ramifications affecting your happiness and overall well-being of
yours and your loves ones.
Life requires that we make wise decisions, to ensure that
our lives are happier and that we can have peace of mind. But making the right
decisions is not a matter of luck or chance. It’s not a coin toss. Remember,
you may have to live with the effects of a wrong decision for a long time—and,
in some cases, a lifetime! Making sound choices is a matter of knowing and
applying certain keys.
Despite the fact that while we are the most intellectually
advanced species on the planet, making decisions does not come easily or
naturally. Our caveman forbearers certainly could think and innovate, but their
technique and our technique generally is that of trial and error - just give it
a try and if it doesn't work we'll try something else. Human brains have
evolved more to solve problems by experimentation than by logic. We have the
cognitive ability to think logically and make decisions, it just doesn't come
naturally.
We are not taught how to make decisions. There are no
courses or instruction below the college level that teach the fundamentals of
decision making.
It’s hard when it’s personal. When we are making a decision
that affects us personally it is very hard to remain objective and think
clearly through to the best solution. The more important the decision the more likely
“outcome apprehension” will inhibit clear thinking and good decision-making.
Have you always made the best decisions? Probably not. Most
people make some good and some poor decisions. Imagine a poor decision you have
made. What would your life be like if you had decided differently? What if you
were consistently able to make wise decisions, wouldn't the quality of your
life improve? Decision making is a skill that can be learned and enhanced.
My purpose is to show you simple decision making tools to
help you improve your ability to make wise decisions. Whether you are now in
the process of making an important decision or just want to hone your skills, I
believe you find something of value here.
What is the effective tool for decision making that I am talking
about .
I call this master tool My True Guide, My Best Friend it’s no
one else but my Tarot Deck.
Tomorrow I will tell you, how can Tarot Help us making right
and wise decisions in life which can impact you and the life of your loved
ones.
Till the time take care and god bless-
Regards
Amolika Shastri
Be Blessed and Live Happy!
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