Today I was doing the
reading of client and the cards were very positive for her and one of the card
was Temparance , Yes one of the positive and very calm card from the Rider
Waite Tarot Deck’s Major Arcana Section. Card No XIV.
After the client went I
was lost in my thoughts, this card reminds me of one reading which I did telephonically.
Yes I did not see the
client at that time, One evening I was having a cup of coffee with my family
when my phone rang and a girl on the other side with a shaking voice asked me
to do her reading, Since I was already preoccupied with my family because my
husband had come after a weeklong tour from Mumbai and I was also expecting at
that time so after seeing my husband after so long I wanted to spend some
quality time with him. So I asked the girl to call me the other day since I was
little busy but she was so insistent that I could not simply say no to her.
I asked her to call me
after half an hour. It was 7 in the evening when she called me and explained
her situation.
Her father was not keeping
well he was admitted in Delhi’s one of the reputed hospitals, she told me that
her father is having heart problems but he was fine since morning and he was
suppose to get discharged the same day but in afternoon his condition has deteriorated
and now the doctors have taken him to ICU and are asking the family to wait but
no one was telling them what’s going on.
Her mother was also very
much worried and was into tears and the girl had a younger brother who was
studying in class 10 at that time. She was the sole earning member of the house
since her father was not keeping well from last few years so he took VRS and
was staying at home.
The girl was very much
worried about her father soso she asked the question which was against my ethics
to answer because in Tarot We don’t do future predictions we only help people
through the guidance of Tarot.
Then she told me that she
has asked some other person also and he has told her bluntly that your father
is not going to survive you better be mentally prepare. I was aghast to hear this
how somebody can say something like this to the person who is already in so
much pain. Rather than consoling her and giving her strength to fight with these
circumstances you are breaking her will power
Then I asked her what
brings you to me because I don’t do future predictions I am not a god .then she
told that earlier she also got some reading done by me on phone only and was
satisfied so again she want me to do reading and this time it was a request .
I had a sympathy for her but somehow I did not
feel like doing reading for her because I was at the loss of words what to tell
her she was already in so much pain .
But because of her
insistence I took out the card and the card which came out was of Temparence.
The card which asks you to
be calm and be patient.
This is what she needed
now. Patience because running from one astrologer to other is not going to help
her this time her family needed her support and if she herself was broken at
this time who is going to take care of the her mother at this old age and who
will look after her younger brother.
Life and death is not in anybody’s
hand it is in the hand of only almighty .
So nobody can decide when one should come to this world and
when one
should be going from this world.
Her father was already
suffering from heart problem, diabetes, and asthma from last few years and as
she told me that it had become a ritual every winter due to the asthmatic condition
of her father they had to admit him to the hospital twice or thrice every winters.
and now he was suffering from so much pain and deteriorating health conditions.
Then I asked her to be
patient and calm and just think about only two things one her father’s pain and
other her family at his time her family needed her the most.
Forget about what someone
said just think and do whatever you think is right.Then I told her the story
from my childhood, I was always in awe why people die because as very close to
my grandparents I never wanted to lose them then I asked this question to my
grandfather why do people die cant it happen that no one dies and people are
born . Then he told me earth is like a food plate you can’t put more food in it
till the time the first food which was served will be finished otherwise it
will keep on piling and no food will be of any use. and after some time you
want be able to put more food in it.
If the old will not go how
will the new will come.
But one must remember one
thing who so ever has come he has to go and when you know that you have to go
you should do such deeds that you are present in good memories of people
always, that’s the achievement.
Don’t think what is going
to happen because that is not in your hand but be the pillar of strength for your
family this time they need you the most, be with your father be his strength
only then he will be able to fight with the pain he is going through there is
no physical pain bigger than the pain in the eyes of your loved ones don’t go
in front of him if you don’t have the courage to face him it will break him
off. Probably she understood what I said because I myself was at loss of words
at time. so could not talk to her more.
After 6 months she called
me again and wanted to meet me not for the reading but just like that.
So I welcomed her , she
came to me with her mother . I was like speechless didn’t knew from where to
start the conversation.
But I could not stop
myself and asked about her father she said ma'am he passed away after 4 months.
I was like what to say,
but then her mother said something to me, she said beta ji thank you what u did
on that day, I saw my little pari grew an overnight. Her father was also very
happy to see the way she was tackling the situation. She told me about you so I
just wanted to meet you thank you so much for giving the strength to my nanhi
pari. Since I was speechless I said only thank you.
After they left I was
thinking about the card so I took out the card and started staring at it.
Yes this is what the cards
guidance was at that time be patient and be calm the situation will come under
control when it has to come by panicking you are just going to make the situation worse for yourself and for your loved ones nothing else.
I was happy for her father
because he got released from the pain . Pain which he was bearing from so many
days. And also the pain which he was bearing on his heart but when he died he
was in peace that what was more important. When we have a fear of losing someone
we become selfish we forget about his problems and pain. But I think this is
what is called human.
Frankly speaking I did not
do any reading for her on that day , I just asked my guiding angel to help her
and that is Tarot..
Message of the Card :
Temperance
Be patient and be calm.
Regards
Amolika
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