Judgement
It happens
with most of us that we do keep on clinging to our past either it's good or bad
memories but with most of us humans we remember only most of the bad memories.
And the result is that because we still are living in our past or roaming
around our so called past memories we are not only ruining our present and also
the future of ourselves.
Here today I
will share one true story with you because of the sensitivity of the matter I
will not share the name but I can tell you that it is a story of most of us
because this similar kind of incident has happened in most of our lives few
have the courage to admit few do not have due to the social stigma.
Few want to
tell the world but are suppressed by the families again due to the social
pressure.
But sometimes
being a healer when I come across these kinds of issues I feel pity for myself
and for all the humans,
Society was
being made to support each other to live-in peace and harmony the society is
suppose to be for us not we are for the society but today its happening it’s
not the society which is being made for us its we who are being sacrificed for
the sake of society.
Same thing
happened with one of my client and now a dear friend of mine when she was still clinging to her past , and the
result was that whenever she is alone the memories from her past still haunts
her ,she was being molested when she was just 9 , as she told me that till date
she has not shared this incident with anybody , she tried to share this with
her grandmother but the grandmother asked her to keep quiet for the sake of the
family name. That day she lost the faith in her family because she was very
close to her grandmother and the same person asked her to keep quiet. Because
this heinous crime was done by one of the family acquaintance and on
the other hand he was very influential also. this incident is so deep on her
soul that till date she was carrying that trauma with her. she is happily
married and is blessed with a baby girl. She is happy but again because of her
this past memory she was not able to let her baby girl letting her enjoy her
childhood, she is so obsessed with the security of her daughter that she
doesn’t allow her to play out of the house without her, she doesn’t allow her
to go and play in the park with the friends doesn’t leave her daughter anywhere
and she has even left her job to just to be with her daughter to protect her .
But what I believe being protective is good but being
overprotective is not good because of her bad memories past down the lane she
is not allowing her daughter to grow and let her enjoy her childhood.
Rajni ( name
change) had become so suspicious about everything and everyone that sometimes
her overprotective nature is bothering her family members a lot and when her daughter
is growing she doesn’t feel like accompanied by her mother not because she
doesn’t loves her but because of her this nature she feels restricted.
But when
Rajni came to me along with her daughter for the reading she wanted to get the
reading done for her daughter that why my daughter is not listening to me why
she has become so stubborn why she is not concentrating on studies all when I
have given up everything for her ,
After
listening to both side of stories I asked Rajni to come alone next time.
And when she
came I took out the card for her The card which came for her was the Judgement.
Now after
looking at the card I was sure that the problem lies with Rajni not with her
daughter.
When this card came in reading after seeing this card without
even talking to her about her situation I asked her few questions.
What s is that which is holding you back?
The answer was no nothing .
Although her answer was no I again asked her because I knew
that there is something which is not easy to break.
My next question was ..
Are you experiencing unhappiness ,isolation and
difficulties ( she immediately became
defensive and started asking me why are u asking me these questions , I am
happily married and blessed with a beautiful daughter and first thing I came
here for my daughter not for myself then why are u asking me these questions )
after listening to her I continued my question
what is that which is still holing you in your past because here I am
not talking about you r present I am
talking about your past , what is that after having everything u still feel
isolated what is that which is still
haunting you.
Her eyes got widened when used the word haunting from the
past I asked her let it go otherwise the loneliness will start taking place of
your happiness and your loved ones happiness because you are not realizing because of your inner issues you
are creating troubles not only for others but most for yourself.
Then she broke and started crying and told me the story of her
haunted past, and the guilt which was killing her that till date she has not
shared this with her husband whom she loves a lot , what he will think about
her , I asked her to open up with the one whom she trusts a lot , she was
hesitant I told her the true love never judges it only loves you,
In next session she came along with her husband, because she
was till hesitant in sharing it with her husband .She wanted me to talk to her
husband but I insisted to break this by herself because it was her fight ,
fight which she was fighting when she was just 9 and still fighting , I left
the room and asked them to have some time together, when I came inside the room
after 2 hours I could see more love in her husband’s eyes for her , her eyes were
swollen and red probably she was crying but along with that I saw a confidence in
her eyes which I could not see when she visited to me 1st time. Her
husband felt more in love with her because of the faith she showed in him and
he said this in front of me today I feel that I am not your husband I am your soul
mate.
Today in true means she is happy and moreover a protective mother not an over possessive
mother, her husband is also happy that finally he could see who real Rajni
is , Now she is not scared of darkness
because now she has understood the true meaning of darkness , her daughter
is also very happy she enjoys the
company of both the parents.
I invited them to my sons birthday party and I could see how
well her daughter was going along with her both were dancing and enjoying the
party . Then suddenly I saw Rajnis husband came near to me and said Thank you .
I told Rajni not to look back because a beautiful tomorrow is
waiting for her.
All that Judgments’ cards ask you to break free yourself from
the old pattern it can be anything some bad memories from the past , some
abusive relationship whose burden which you cant carry anymore , its asks you
to break free and start living you present and think about tomorrow because you
cant change you past but by clinging on to your past you can only ruin your
present and future both. Now the choice is Yours,
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